Marlene was born ‘Marlene Boyland’. Back when surnames/family names were introduced it usually indicated occupation or family circumstances. Marlene’s family tree indicates she was the only female born in many generations.
Born and bred in Brissy. A war baby and with the post war rationing Marlene was never given tea. To this day, she still doesn’t know what it tastes like!
Being a Leo, leadership prevailed, classes, terms, school captain, etc.
A nursing career followed. In those days four years live in, shifts started at 6am and the nurse’s quarters doors were locked at 10pm. Also, a maternal and child welfare graduate. After that lockdown Marlene decided to be a hostie, anyone remember Ansett?
(Did you know you can walk from Brisbane to Melbourne and back again in one day in high heels?)
London called in the mid-60s so Marlene set sail, (as did most), on the good ship Patris. Landing in Athens and carrying her two suitcases across Europe she visited all the romantic cities she had dreamt about for twenty-something years. Doing most of it by the book, ‘Europe on $10 a day’.
Arriving in London, (well Earls Court), and set about living three years in one of her favourite cities. Marlene was a personal assistant to an Aussie businessman and, of course, did the three-month door mobile tour of ‘The Continent’.
She returned home in the late ‘60s, engaged to an Aussie bloke. They married and settled in Melbourne where they both worked for IBM, (she in marketing).
(By the way, IBM stands for, I’ve been moved, which Marlene and her husband did nine times to achieve the pinnacle, for him).
One of those moves was to New York where she thoroughly enjoyed living in Chappaqua, (now home to the Clintons), and spending a lot of time in the Big Apple.
Returning to Sydney, Marlene developed and ran her own retail fashion business, until they had to move again back to Melbourne for a few years and then back to Sydney.
They had one child, Georgia, because you can’t improve on perfection!
In the last thirty years of Marlene’s life, she has enjoyed joining and leading several women’s clubs, Sydney Women’s International Club and IONIANS amongst them, also Probus.
She was travelling solo during this time and, speaking of travelling, she’s spent about two years of it on cruise ships and still continues to do so. (You don’t even have to make your own bed!)
Another passion of Marlene’s life is creative embroidery; she belongs to the NSW Embroiders Guild.
She is passionate about her family; her daughter is in Switzerland and has a brother and family in Canada. So, these lovely people play a large part in her life.
Marlene has lived at Bougainvillea since 2020. She always knew Bougainvillea was going to be her home and spent a good bit of time viewing units when available for sale until the ‘right one’ became available.
Being patient certainly paid off, Marlene has a lovely home with a fabulous northern aspect looking out on the greenery of the gardens.
Marlene is one of Bougainvillea’s leading crafts women, there is little Marlene cannot do with a pair of knitting needles, crotchet needle or sewing needle.
Marlene was away travelling to Switzerland to spend time with her daughter Georgia and then a Rhine and Moselle River Cruise with some American friends during the time of this bio being released.
She really is quite a woman!
The Pros and Cons of Living in a Retirement Community
Deciding where to live in retirement is a significant decision that can impact your lifestyle, social interactions, and overall well-being. For many senior Australians, retirement villages offer an appealing option. These vibrant communities are designed for seniors, providing various amenities and a wonderful sense of community. However, like any living arrangement, retirement villages have advantages and disadvantages. Here’s a closer look at the pros and cons of living in a retirement village to help you decide if it’s the right choice for you, or your loved one.
Sense of Community
One of the biggest draws of retirement village or any other area is the sense of community they offer. Living among peers with similar life experiences and interests can lead to lasting friendships and a strong sense of belonging. Seniors living in retirement living can enjoy the comfort of:
- Social Interaction: Retirement villages often have communal areas, organised events, and activities encouraging residents to socialise. Whether it’s a game of cards, a group exercise class, or a community BBQ, there’s always an opportunity to connect with others. Isolation need not occur.
- Supportive Environment: Being surrounded by others in a similar stage of life can provide emotional support and companionship, reducing feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Maintaining Independence
Many seniors value independence highly. And that’s only natural. After decades of living independently, moving into a facility with constant care and less privacy can be unappealing. Independent apartment communities and other areas cater to those who wish to maintain their self-sufficiency while also enjoying the benefits of a supportive environment. Here’s what they love about it:
- Self-Reliance: Residents have private apartments, allowing them to live as they would in any other home. They can cook, entertain guests, and come and go as they please. They can socialise as little or as much as they like, knowing they have their private haven to go home to.
- Minimal Assistance: Unlike assisted living or nursing homes, independent living does not include daily care services, which really suits those who are still active and are capable of managing their affairs and prefer it that way. If occasional or temporary assistance is required, having that option is also beneficial.
Social Opportunities
Loneliness and isolation are common concerns among older adults. Independent living apartments provide a built-in community where residents can easily make new friends and participate in social activities as much or as little as they feel comfortable. Options include:
- Organised Activities: Many communities offer a calendar full of events, from movie nights and book clubs to fitness classes and outings. These activities provide opportunities for social interaction and engagement.
- Communal Spaces: Facilities often include communal dining areas, lounges, and gardens where residents can gather and socialise.
- Supportive Environment: Living among peers with similar experiences and interests can foster a sense of belonging and community.
Conclusion
Independent living apartments offer a compelling and comforting option for Australian seniors who value independence, low-maintenance living, and a sense of community. With convenient amenities, varied social opportunities, and a safe environment, these communities are attractive for senior Australians looking to enjoy their retirement years. As more seniors recognise the benefits of independent living, it’s no surprise that this housing option is becoming increasingly popular. For those considering their options, independent living apartments provide a balanced approach to maintaining autonomy while being part of a supportive and engaging community. The golden years are looking good!